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ENVY is that Baseness in our Nature, which makes us grieve and pine at
what we conceive to be a Happiness in others. I don’t believe there is a
Human Creature in his Senses arriv’d to Maturity, that at one time or
other has not been carried away by this Passion in good Earnest; and yet I
never met with any one that dared own he was guilty of it, but in Jest.
That we are so generally ashamed of this Vice, is owing to that
strong Habit of Hypocrisy, by the Help of which, we have learned from our
Cradle to hide even from our selves the vast Extent of Self-Love, and all
its different Branches. It is impossible Man should wish better for
another than he does for himself, unless where he supposes an
Impossibility that himself should attain to those Wishes; and from hence
we may easily learn after what
manner this Passion is raised in us. In order to it, we are to consider
First, That as well as we think of our selves, so ill we often think of
our Neighbour with equal Injustice; and when we apprehend, that others do
or will enjoy what we think they don’t deserve, it afflicts and makes us
angry with the Cause of that Disturbance. Secondly, That we are ever
employ’d in wishing well for our selves, every one according to his
Judgment and Inclinations, and when we observe something we like, and yet
are destitute of, in the Possession of others; it occasions first Sorrow
in us for not having the Thing we like. This Sorrow is incurable, while we
continue our Esteem for the Thing we want: But as Self-Defence is
restless, and never suffers us to leave any Means untried how to remove
Evil from us, as far and as well as we are able; Experience teaches us,
that nothing in Nature more alleviates this Sorrow than our Anger against
those who are possess’d of what we esteem and want. This latter Passion
therefore, we cherish and cultivate to save or relieve our selves, at
least in part, from the Uneasiness we felt from the first.
Envy then is a Compound of Grief and Anger; the Degrees of this Passion
depend chiefly on the Nearness or Remoteness of the Objects as to
Circumstances. If one, who is forced to walk on Foot envies a great Man
for keeping a Coach and Six, it will never be with that Violence, or give
him that Disturbance which it may to a Man, who keeps a Coach himself, but
can only afford to drive with four Horses. The Symptoms of Envy are as
various, and as hard to describe, as those of the Plague; at some time it
appears in one Shape, at others in another quite different. Among the Fair
the Disease is very common, and the Signs of it very conspicuous in their
Opinions and Censures of one another. In beautiful young Women you may
often discover this Faculty to a high Degree; they frequently will hate
one another mortally at first Sight, from no other Principle than Envy;
and you may read this Scorn, and unreasonable Aversion in their very
Countenances, if they have not a great deal of Art, and well learn’d to
dissemble.
In the rude and unpolish’d Multitude this Passion is very bare-faced;
especially when they envy others for the Goods of Fortune: They rail at
their Betters, rip up their Faults, and take Pains to misconstrue
their
most commendable Actions: They murmur at Providence, and loudly complain,
that the good Things of this World are chiefly enjoy’d by those who do not
deserve them. The grosser Sort of them it often affects so violently, that
if they were not withheld by the Fear of the Laws, they would go directly
and beat those their Envy is levell’d at, from no other Provocation than
what that Passion suggests to them.
The Men of Letters labouring under this Distemper discover quite
different Symptoms. When they envy a Person for his Parts and Erudition,
their chief Care is industriously to conceal their Frailty, which
generally is attempted by denying and depreciating the good Qualities they
envy: They carefully peruse his Works, and are displeas’d with
every fine Passage they meet with; they look for nothing but his Errors,
and wish for no greater Feast than a gross Mistake: In their Censures they
are captious as well as severe, make Mountains of Mole-hills, and will not
pardon the least Shadow of a Fault, but exaggerate the most trifling
Omission into a Capital Blunder.
Envy is visible in Brute-Beasts; Horses shew it in their Endeavours of
out-stripping one another; and the best spirited will run themselves to
Death before they’ll suffer another before them. In Dogs this Passion is
likewise plainly to be seen, those who are used to be caress’d will
never tamely bear that Felicity in others. I have seen a Lap-Dog that
would choke himself with Victuals rather than leave any thing for a
Competitor of his own Kind; and we may often observe the same Behaviour in
those Creatures which we daily see in Infants that are froward, and by
being over-fondled made humoursome. If out of Caprice they at any time
refuse to eat what they have ask’d for, and we can but make them believe
that some body else, nay, even the Cat or the Dog is going to take it from
them, they will make an end of their Oughts with Pleasure, and feed even
against their Appetite.
If Envy was not rivetted in Human Nature, it would not be so common in
Children, and Youth would not be so generally spurr’d on by Emulation.
Those who would derive every Thing that is beneficial to the Society from
a good Principle, ascribe the Effects of Emulation in School-boys to a
Virtue of the Mind; as it requires Labour and Pains, so it is evident,
that they commit a Self-Denial, who act from that Disposition; but if we
look narrowly into it, we shall find that this Sacrifice of Ease and
Pleasure is only made to Envy, and the Love of Glory. If there was not
something very like this Passion mix’d with that pretended Virtue, it
would be impossible to raise and increase it by the same Means that create
Envy. The Boy, who receives a Reward for the Superiority of his
Performance, is conscious of the Vexation it would have been to him, if he
should have fall’n short of it: This Reflexion makes him exert himself,
not to be out-done by those whom now he looks upon as his Inferiors, and
the greater his Pride is, the more Self-denial he’ll practise to maintain
his Conquest. The other, who, in spite of the Pains he took to do well,
has miss’d of the Prize, is sorry, and consequently angry with him whom he
must look upon as the Cause of his Grief: But to shew this Anger, would be
ridiculous, and of no Service to him, so that he must either be contented
to be less esteem’d than the other Boy; or by renewing his Endeavours
become a greater Proficient: and it is ten to one, but the disinterested,
good-humour’d, and peaceable Lad will choose the first, and so become
indolent and unactive, while the covetous, peevish, and quarrelsome Rascal
shall take incredible Pains, and make himself a Conqueror in his Turn.
Envy, as it is very common among Painters, so it is of great Use for
their Improvement: I don’t mean, that little Dawbers envy great Masters,
but most of them are tainted with this Vice against those immediately
above them. If the Pupil of a famous Artist is of a bright Genius, and
uncommon Application, he first adores his Master; but as his own Skill
increases, he begins insensibly to envy what he admired before. To
learn the Nature of this Passion, and that it consists in what I have
named, we are but to observe that, if a Painter by exerting himself comes
not only to equal, but to
exceed the Man he envied, his Sorrow is gone and all his Anger disarmed;
and if he hated him before, he is now glad to be Friends with him, if the
other will condescend to it.
Married Women, who are Guilty of this Vice, which few are not, are
always endeavouring to raise the same Passion in their Spouses; and where
they have prevail’d, Envy and Emulation have kept more Men in Bounds, and
reform’d more Ill Husbands from Sloth, from Drinking and other evil
Courses, than all the Sermons that have been preach’d since the time of
the Apostles.
As every Body would be happy, enjoy Pleasure and avoid Pain if he
could, so Self-love bids us look on every Creature that seems satisfied,
as a Rival in Happiness; and the Satisfaction we have in seeing that
Felicity disturb’d, without any Advantage to our selves but what springs
from the Pleasure we have in beholding it, is call’d loving Mischief for
Mischief’s sake; and the Motive of which that Frailty is the Result,
Malice, another Offspring derived from the same Original; for if there was
no Envy there could be no Malice. When the Passions lie dormant we have no
Apprehension of them, and often People think they have not such a
Frailty in their Nature, because that Moment they are not affected with
it.
A Gentleman well dress’d, who happens to be dirty’d all over by a Coach
or a Cart, is laugh’d at, and by his Inferiors much more than his Equals,
because they envy him more: they know he is vex’d at it, and imagining him
to be happier than themselves, they are glad to see him meet with
Displeasures in his turn: But a young Lady, if she be in a serious Mood,
instead of laughing at, pities him, because a clean Man is a Sight she
takes delight in, and there is no room for Envy. At Disasters, we either
laugh, or pity those that befal them, according to the Stock we are
possess’d of either of Malice or Compassion. If a Man falls or hurts
himself so slightly that it moves not the latter
, we laugh, and here our Pity and Malice shake us alternately: Indeed,
Sir, I am very sorry for it, I beg your Pardon for laughing, I am the
silliest Creature in the World, then laugh again;
and again,
I am indeed very sorry, and so on. Some are so Malicious they would laugh
if a Man broke his Leg, and others are so Compassionate that they can
heartily pity a Man for the least Spot in his Clothes; but no Body is so
Savage that no Compassion can touch him, nor any Man so good-natur’d as
never to be affected with any Malicious Pleasure. How strangely our
Passions govern us! We envy a Man for being Rich, and then perfectly hate
him: But if we come to be his Equals, we are calm, and the least
Condescension in him makes us Friends; but if we become visibly Superior
to him we can pity his Misfortunes. The Reason why Men of true good Sense
envy less than others, is because they admire themselves with less
Hesitation than Fools and silly People; for tho’ they do not shew this to
others, yet the Solidity of their thinking gives them an Assurance of
their real Worth, which Men of weak Understanding can never feel within,
tho’ they often counterfeit it.
The Ostracism of the Greeks was a Sacrifice of valuable Men made
to Epidemick Envy, and often applied as an infallible Remedy to cure and
prevent the Mischiefs of Popular Spleen and Rancour. A Victim of State
often appeases the Murmurs of a whole Nation, and After-ages frequently
wonder at Barbarities of this Nature, which under the same Circumstances
they would have committed themselves. They are Compliments to the Peoples
Malice, which is never better gratify’d, than when they can see a great
Man humbled. We believe that we love Justice, and to see Merit rewarded;
but if Men continue long in the first Posts of Honour, half of us grow
weary of them, look for their Faults, and if we can find none, we suppose
they hide them, and ’tis much if the greatest part of us don’t wish them
discarded. This foul Play the best of Men ought ever to apprehend
from all who are not their immediate Friends or Acquaintance, because
nothing is more tiresome to us than the Repetition of Praises we have no
manner of Share in.
The more a Passion is a Compound of many others, the more difficult it
is to define it; and the more it is tormenting to those that labour under
it, the greater Cruelty it is capable of inspiring them with against
others: Therefore nothing is more whimsical or mischievous than Jealousy,
which is made up of Love, Hope, Fear, and a great deal of Envy: The last
has been sufficiently treated of already, and what I have to say of Fear,
the Reader will find under Remark (R.) So that the better to
explain and illustrate this odd Mixture, the Ingredients I shall further
speak of in this Place are Hope and Love.
Hoping is wishing with some degree of Confidence, that the Thing wish’d
for will come to pass.
The Firmness and Imbecillity of our Hope depend entirely on the greater or
lesser Degree of our Confidence, and all Hope includes Doubt; for when our
Confidence is arriv’d to that Height, as to exclude all Doubts, it becomes
a Certainty, and we take for granted what we only hop’d for before. A
silver Inkhorn may pass in Speech, because every Body knows what we mean
by it, but a certain Hope cannot: For a Man who makes use of an Epithet
that destroys the Essence of the Substantive he joins it to, can have no
Meaning at all; and the more clearly we understand the Force of the
Epithet, and the Nature of the Substantive, the more palpable is the
Nonsense of the heterogeneous Compound. The Reason, therefore, why it is
not so shocking to some to hear a Man speak of certain Hope, as if he
should talk of hot Ice, or liquid Oak, is not because there is less
Nonsense contain’d in the first than there is in either of the latter; but
because the Word Hope, I mean the Essence of it, is not so clearly
understood by the Generality of the People, as the Words and Essences of
Ice and Oak are.
Love in the first Place signifies Affection, such as Parents and Nurses
bear to Children, and Friends to one another; it consists in a Liking and
Well-wishing to the Person beloved. We give an easy Construction to his
Words and Actions, and feel a Proneness to excuse and forgive his Faults,
if we see any; his Interest we make on all Accounts our own, even to our
Prejudice, and receive an inward Satisfaction for sympathizing with him in
his Sorrows, as well as Joys. What I said last is not impossible, whatever
it may seem to be; for when we are sincere in sharing with another in his
Misfortunes, Self-Love makes us believe, that the Sufferings we feel must
alleviate and lessen those of our Friend, and while this fond Reflexion is
soothing our Pain, a secret Pleasure arises from our grieving for the
Person we love.
Secondly, by Love we understand a strong Inclination, in its
Nature distinct from all other Affections of Friendship, Gratitude, and
Consanguinity, that Persons of different Sexes, after liking, bear to one
another: It is in this Signification that Love enters into the Compound of
Jealousy, and is the Effect as well as happy Disguise of that
Passion that prompts us to labour for the Preservation of our Species.
This latter Appetite is innate both in Men and Women, who are not
defective in their Formation, as much as Hunger or Thirst, tho’ they are
seldom affected with it before the Years of Puberty. Could we undress
Nature, and pry into her deepest Recesses, we should discover the Seeds of
this Passion before it exerts itself , as plainly as we see the Teeth in
an Embryo, before the Gums are form’d. There are few healthy People of
either Sex, whom it has made no Impression upon before Twenty: Yet, as the
Peace and Happiness of the Civil Society require that this should be kept
a Secret, never to be talk’d of in Publick; so among well-bred People it
is counted highly Criminal to mention before Company any thing in plain
Words, that is relating to this Mystery of Succession: By which Means the
very Name of the Appetite, tho’ the most necessary for the Continuance of
Mankind, is become odious, and the proper Epithets commonly join’d to Lust
are Filthy and Abominable.
This Impulse of Nature in People of strict Morals, and rigid
Modesty, often disturbs the Body for a considerable Time before it is
understood or known to be what it is, and it is remarkable that the most
polish’d and best instructed are generally the most ignorant as to this
Affair; and here I can but observe the Difference between Man in the wild
State of Nature, and the same Creature in the Civil Society. In the first,
Men and Women, if left rude and untaught in the Sciences of Modes and
Manners, would quickly find out the Cause of that Disturbance, and be at a
Loss no more than other Animals for a present Remedy: Besides, that it is
not probable they would want either Precept or Example from the more
experienc’d. But in the second, where the Rules of Religion, Law and
Decency, are to be follow’d, and obey’d before any Dictates of Nature, the
Youth of both Sexes are to be arm’d and fortify’d against this Impulse,
and from their Infancy artfully frighten’d from the most remote Approaches
of it. The Appetite it self, and all the Symptoms of it, tho’ they are
plainly felt and understood, are to be stifled with Care and Severity, and
in Women flatly disown’d, and if there be Occasion, with Obstinacy deny’d,
even when themselves are visibly affected by them. If it throws them into
Distempers, they must be cured by Physick, or else patiently bear them in
Silence; and it is the Interest of the Society to preserve Decency
and Politeness; that Women should linger, waste, and die, rather than
relieve themselves in an unlawful manner; and among the fashionable Part
of Mankind, the People of Birth and Fortune, it is expected that Matrimony
should never be enter’d upon without a curious Regard to Family, Estate,
and Reputation, and in the making of Matches the Call of Nature be the
very last Consideration.
Those then who would make Love and Lust Synonimous confound the Effect
with the Cause of it: Yet such is the force of Education, and a Habit of
thinking as we are taught, that sometimes Persons of either Sex are
actually in Love without feeling any Carnal Desires, or penetrating into
the Intentions of Nature, the end proposed by her without which they could
never have been affected with that sort of Passion. That there are such is
certain, but many more whose Pretences to those refin’d Notions are only
upheld by Art and Dissimulation. Those, who are really such Platonick
Lovers are commonly the pale-faced weakly People of cold and phlegmatick
Constitutions in either Sex; the hale and robust of bilious Temperament
and a sanguine Complexion
never entertain any Love so Spiritual as to exclude all Thoughts and
Wishes that relate to the Body.
But if the most Seraphick Lovers would know the Original of their
Inclination, let them but suppose that another should have the
Corporal Enjoyment of the Person beloved, and by the Tortures they’ll
suffer from that Refiexion they will soon discover the Nature of their
Passions: Whereas on the contrary, Parents and Friends receive a
Satisfaction in reflecting on the Joys and Comforts of a happy Marriage,
to be tasted by those they wish well to.
The curious, that are skill’d in anatomizing the invisible Part of Man,
will observe that the more sublime and exempt this Love is from all
Thoughts of Sensuality, the more spurious it is, and the more it
degenerates from its honest Original and primitive Simplicity. The Power
and Sagacity as well as Labour and Care of the Politician in civilizing
the Society, has been no where more conspicuous, than in the happy
Contrivance of playing our Passions against one another. By flattering our
Pride and still increasing the good Opinion we have of ourselves on the
one hand, and inspiring us on the other with a superlative Dread and
mortal Aversion against Shame, the Artful Moralists have taught us
chearfully to encounter our selves, and if not subdue, at least so to
conceal and disguise our darling Passion, Lust, that we scarce know it
when we meet with it in our own Breasts; Oh! the mighty Prize we have in
view for all our Self-denial! can any Man be so serious as to abstain from
Laughter, when he considers that for so much deceit and insincerity
practis’d upon our selves as well as others, we have no other Recompense
than the vain Satisfaction of making our Species appear more exalted and
remote from that of other Animals, than it really is; and we in our
Consciences know it to be? yet this is fact, and in it we plainly perceive
the reason why it was necessary to render odious every Word or Action by
which we might discover the innate Desire we feel to perpetuate our Kind;
and why tamely to submit to the violence of a Furious Appetite (which it
is
painful to resist) and innocently to obey the most pressing demand of
Nature without Guile or Hypocrisy, like other Creatures , should be
branded with the Ignominious Name of Brutality.
What we call Love then is not a Genuine, but an Adulterated Appetite,
or rather a Compound, a heap of several contradictory Passions blended in
one. As it is a product of Nature warp’d by Custom and Education, so the
true Origin and first Motive of it, as I have hinted already, is stifled
in well-bred People, and almost concealed from themselves: all which is
the reason that as those affected with it vary in Age, Strength,
Resolution, Temper, Circumstances, and Manners, the effects of it are so
different, whimsical, surprizing and unaccountable.
It is this Passion that makes Jealousy so troublesome, and the Envy of
it often so fatal: those who imagine that there may be Jealousy
without Love, do not understand that Passion. Men may not have the least
Affection for their Wives, and yet be angry with them for their Conduct,
and suspicious of them either with or without a Cause: But what in such
Cases affects them is their Pride, the Concern for their Reputation. They
feel a Hatred against them without Remorse; when they are outrageous, they
can beat them and go to sleep contentedly: such Husbands may watch their
Dames themselves, and have them
observed by others; but their Vigilance is not so intense; they are not so
inquisitive or industrious in their Searches, neither do they feel that
Anxiety of Heart at the Fear of a Discovery, as when Love is mix’d with
the Passions.
What confirms me in this Opinion is, that we never observe this
Behaviour between a Man and his Mistress; for when his Love is gone and he
suspects her to be false, he leaves her, and troubles his Head no more
about her: Whereas it is the greatest Difficulty imaginable, even to a Man
of Sense, to part with a Mistress as long as he loves her, what ever
Faults she may be guilty of. If in his Anger he strikes her he is uneasy
after it; his Love makes him reflect on the Hurt he has done her, and he
wants to be reconcil’d to her again. He may talk of hating her, and many
times from his Heart wish her hang’d, but if he cannot get entirely
rid of his Frailty, he can never disintangle himself from her: tho’ she is
represented in the most monstrous Guilt to his Imagination, and he has
resolved and swore a thousand Times never to come near her again, there is
no trusting him;
even when he is fully convinc’d of her Infidelity, if his Love continues,
his Despair is never so lasting, but between the blackest Fits of it he
relents, and finds lucid Intervals of Hope; he forms Excuses for her,
thinks of pardoning, and in order to it racks his Invention for
Possibilities that may make her appear less criminal.