



(E.)—— —— As
your Gamesters do, Who, tho’ at fair Play, ne’er will
own Before the Losers what they’ve won: Page 7. Line
18.
THIS being a general Practice which no Body can be
ignorant of that has ever seen any Play, there must be
something in the Make of Man that is the Occasion of
it: But as the searching into this will seem very
trifling to many, I desire the Reader to skip this
Remark, unless he be in perfect good Humour, and has
nothing at all to do.
That Gamesters generally endeavour to conceal their
Gains before the Losers, seems to me to proceed from a
mixture of Gratitude, Pity, and Self-Preservation. All
Men are naturally grateful while they receive a
Benefit, and what they say or do, while it affects and
feels warm about them, is real, and comes from the
Heart; but when that is over, the Returns we make
generally proceed from Virtue, good Manners, Reason,
and the Thoughts of Duty, but not from Gratitude,
which is a Motive of the Inclination. If we consider,
how tyrannically the immoderate Love we bear to our
selves, obliges us to esteem every body that with or
without design acts in our favour, and how often we
extend our affection to things inanimate, when we
imagine them to contribute to our present Advantage:
If, I say, we consider this, it will not be difficult
to find out which way our being pleased with those
whose Money we win is owing to a Principle of
Gratitude. The next Motive is our Pity, which proceeds
from our consciousness of the Vexation there is in
losing; and as we love the Esteem of every body, we
are afraid of forfeiting theirs by being the Cause of
their Loss. Lastly, we apprehend their Envy, and so
Self-Preservation makes that we strive to extenuate
first the Obligation, then the Reason why we ought to
Pity, in hopes that we shall have less of their
Ill-will and Envy. When the Passions shew themselves
in their full Strength, they are known by every body:
When a Man in Power gives a great Place to one that
did him a small kindness in his Youth, we call it
Gratitude: When a Woman howls and wrings her Hands at
the loss of her Child, the prevalent Passion is Grief;
and the Uneasiness we feel at the sight of great
Misfortunes, as a Man’s breaking his Legs or dashing
his Brains out, is every where call’d Pity. But the
gentle strokes, the slight touches of the Passions,
are generally overlook’d or mistaken.
To prove my Assertion, we have but to observe what
generally passes between the Winner and the Loser. The first is
always Complaisant, and if the other will but keep his
Temper, more than ordinarily obliging; he is ever
ready to humour the Loser, and willing to
rectify his Mistakes with Precaution, and the Height
of good Manners. The Loser is uneasy, captious,
morose, and perhaps Swears and Storms; yet as long as
he says or does nothing designedly affronting, the
Winner takes all in good part, without offending,
disturbing, or contradicting him. Losers, says
the Proverb, must have leave to rail: All which
shews, that the Loser is thought in the Right to
complain, and for that very Reason
pity’d. That we are afraid of the Loser’s Ill-will is
plain from our being conscious that we are displeased
with those we lose to, and Envy we always dread when
we think our selves happier than others: From whence
it follows, that when the Winner endevours to
conceal his Gains, his design is to avert the
Mischiefs he apprehends, and this is
Self-Preservation; the Cares of which continue to
affect us as long as the Motives that first produced
them remain.
But a Month, a Week, or perhaps a much shorter time
after, when the Thoughts of the Obligation, and
consequently the Winner’s Gratitude are worn off, when
the Loser has recover’d his Temper, laughs at his
Loss, and the Reason of the Winner’s Pity ceases; when
the Winner’s apprehension of drawing upon him the
Ill-will and Envy of the Loser is gone; that
is to say, as soon as all the Passions are over, and
the Cares of Self-Preservation employ the Winner’s
Thoughts no longer, he’ll not only make no scruple of
owning what
he has won, but will, if his Vanity steps in,
likewise, with Pleasure, brag of, if not exaggerate
his Gains.
It is possible, that when People play together who
are at Enmity, and perhaps desirous of picking a
Quarrel, or where Men playing for Trifles contend for
Superiority of Skill, and aim chiefly at the Glory of
Conquest, nothing shall happen of what I have been
talking of. Different Passions oblige us to take
different Measures; what I have said I would have
understood of ordinary Play for Money, at which Men
endeavour to get, and venture to lose what they value:
And even here I know it will be objected by many, that
tho’ they have been guilty of concealing their Gains,
yet they never observ’d those Passions which I alledge
as the Causes of that Frailty; which is no wonder,
because few Men will give themselves leisure, and
fewer yet take the right Method of examining
themselves as they should do. It is with the Passions
in Men as it is with Colours in Cloth: It is easy to
know a Red, a Green, a Blue, a Yellow, a Black, &c.
in as many different Places ; but it
must be an Artist that can unravel all the various
Colours and their Proportions, that make up the
Compound of a well-mix’d Cloth. In the same manner may
the Passions be discover’d by every Body whilst they
are distinct, and a single one employs the whole Man;
but it is very difficult to trace every Motive of
those Actions that are the Result of a mixture of
Passions.