



(E.)—— —— As your Gamesters do,
Who, tho’ at fair Play, ne’er will own Before the Losers what they’ve won:
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THIS being a general Practice which no Body can be ignorant of that has
ever seen any Play, there must be something in the Make of Man that is the
Occasion of it: But as the searching into this will seem very trifling to
many, I desire the Reader to skip this Remark, unless he be in perfect good
Humour, and has nothing at all to do.
That Gamesters generally endeavour to conceal their Gains before the
Losers, seems to me to proceed from a mixture of Gratitude, Pity, and
Self-Preservation. All Men are naturally grateful while they receive a
Benefit, and what they say or do, while it affects and feels warm about
them, is real, and comes from the Heart; but when that is over, the Returns
we make generally proceed from Virtue, good Manners, Reason, and the
Thoughts of Duty, but not from Gratitude, which is a Motive of the
Inclination. If we consider, how tyrannically the immoderate Love we bear to
our selves, obliges us to esteem every body that with or without design
acts in our favour, and how often we extend our affection to things
inanimate, when we imagine them to contribute to our present Advantage: If,
I say, we consider this, it will not be difficult to find out which way our
being pleased with those whose Money we win is owing to a Principle of
Gratitude. The next Motive is our Pity, which proceeds from our
consciousness of the Vexation there is in losing; and as we love the Esteem
of every body, we are afraid of forfeiting theirs by being the Cause of
their Loss. Lastly, we apprehend their Envy, and so Self-Preservation makes
that we strive to extenuate first the Obligation, then the Reason why we
ought to Pity, in hopes that we shall have less of their Ill-will and Envy.
When the Passions shew themselves in their full Strength, they are known by
every body: When a Man in Power gives a great Place to one that did him a
small kindness in his Youth, we call it Gratitude: When a Woman howls and
wrings her Hands at the loss of her Child, the prevalent Passion is Grief;
and the Uneasiness we feel at the sight of great Misfortunes, as a Man’s
breaking his Legs
or dashing his Brains out, is every where call’d Pity. But the gentle
strokes, the slight touches of the Passions, are generally overlook’d or
mistaken.
To prove my Assertion, we have but to observe what generally passes
between the Winner and the Loser.
The first is always Complaisant, and if the other will but keep his Temper,
more than ordinarily obliging; he is ever ready to humour the Loser,
and willing to rectify his Mistakes with Precaution, and the Height of good
Manners. The Loser is uneasy, captious, morose, and perhaps Swears and
Storms; yet as long as he says or does nothing designedly affronting, the
Winner takes all in good part, without offending, disturbing, or
contradicting him. Losers, says the Proverb, must have leave to
rail:
All which shews, that the Loser is thought in the Right to complain, and for
that very
Reason pity’d. That we are afraid of the Loser’s Ill-will is plain from our
being conscious that we are displeased with those we lose to, and Envy we
always dread when we think our selves happier than others: From whence it
follows, that when the Winner endevours to conceal his Gains, his
design is to avert the Mischiefs he apprehends, and this is
Self-Preservation; the Cares of which continue to affect us as long as the
Motives that first produced them remain.
But a Month, a Week, or perhaps a much shorter time after, when the
Thoughts of the Obligation, and consequently the Winner’s Gratitude are worn
off, when the Loser has recover’d his Temper, laughs at his Loss, and
the Reason of the Winner’s Pity ceases; when the Winner’s apprehension of
drawing upon him the Ill-will and Envy of the Loser is gone; that is
to say, as soon as all the Passions are over, and the Cares of
Self-Preservation employ the Winner’s Thoughts no longer, he’ll not only
make no scruple of
owning what he has won, but will, if his Vanity steps in, likewise,
with Pleasure, brag of, if not exaggerate his Gains.
It is possible, that when People play together who are at Enmity, and
perhaps desirous of picking a Quarrel, or where Men playing for Trifles
contend for Superiority of Skill, and aim chiefly at the Glory of Conquest,
nothing shall happen of what I have been talking of. Different Passions
oblige us to take different Measures; what I have said I would have
understood of ordinary Play for Money, at which Men endeavour to get, and
venture to lose what they value: And even here I know it will be objected by
many, that tho’ they have been guilty of concealing their Gains, yet they
never observ’d those Passions which I alledge as the Causes of that Frailty;
which is no wonder, because few Men will give themselves leisure, and fewer
yet take the right Method of examining themselves as they should do. It is
with the Passions in Men as it is with Colours in Cloth: It is easy to know
a Red, a Green, a Blue, a Yellow, a Black, &c. in as many
different Places
; but it must be an Artist that can unravel all the various Colours
and their Proportions, that make up the Compound of a well-mix’d Cloth. In
the same manner may the Passions be discover’d by every Body whilst they are
distinct, and a single one employs the whole Man; but it is very difficult
to trace every Motive of those Actions that are the Result of a mixture of
Passions.